Blum's Blog

Update on Elsie: Preserving My Mother’s Story
Every family has a story. Those stories make your family unique. As psychologist Marshall Duke explains, “Ordinary families can be special because they each have a history no other family has.”

Unequal Inheritances: Tips from Experts
In last week’s post, I shared a few samples of the high-octane reaction to the topic of sibling strife over unequal inheritances. I brought home the point that such warfare is

Title: Sibling Warfare: Reader Reactions
My Sibling Warfare post on June 28th, together with last week’s post on unequal inheritances, have really struck a nerve. Not surprisingly, many families are struggling with sibling conflict. The feedback

Leaving Unequal Inheritances to Your Kids: Fair or Poison?
My post 3 weeks ago on “sibling warfare” generated a hot reaction and a request for me to dive deeper into that topic. I’ll start that today by addressing a

MCA Is a Cause That Makes My Heart Sing. What’s Yours?
Our recent Family Legacy Planning posts have stressed the importance of relationships and social interaction in improving the quality and quantity of our lives. Developing that theme further, I think

Procrastinating Planning? Heed this Warning from “Ray Ray”
For those of us who are putting off something until “tomorrow,” I recently had a wake-up call to remind us that time is zooming by faster than we realize. The

Sibling Warfare: Let’s Battle This Epidemic
It seems every day the media is reporting on another family falling off the rails. One sibling is suing another. A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about Rabbi Danziger’s

You Want to Stay in Your Home Forever? Consider Elsie Blum’s Alternative
In last week’s Family Legacy Planning post, I presented the case that social interaction improves both the quality and quantity of life. I ended by saying this week’s post would

Ten Keys to a Long (and Good) Life
In today’s post, I continue exploring the first part of the Blum Family Mission Statement: “It’s all about relationships.” In my research on the value of relationships, I discovered a

It’s All About Relationships: My Best Friend, Talmage Boston
A few weeks ago, I dedicated a post to the first prong of the Blum Family Mission Statement: “It’s All About Relationships.” I dedicated the post to my fellow Canoe

Family Friction? Be Thankful for the Variety of Spices
Last week’s post focused on the polarization in government and the impact on tax law. Each side stakes out its position and tries to force its views on the other

Tax Planning in the Age of Dysfunctional Government
I have a great love for teaching. It brings me joy to share my knowledge of estate planning and help families achieve multi-generational success. One such opportunity was last week,
